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40 and not out!

Thursday Offering From Fr Marcus 8th July 2021 

Forty and not out!

Good Day my Friends,

I hope you are all merry and bright.

On 29th June many of you joined me, and helped me celebrate forty years since my Ordination as a Priest, and it was a wonderful occasion, so huge Thanks to all who made it happen.

I remember that day way back in 1981, being on retreat beforehand was wonderful, but I was worrying about whether or not I had clean socks! (I lived alone at the time) 

I had packed my bag before we went on retreat, and a friend of mine had included a little gift for my special day. I opened it before I set off for the service, only to find a brand new pair of black socks with little red stripes on the side! The only reason I am telling you this is that the day, and indeed the next forty years were full of surprises!

Becoming a Priest was such a joy. Even while I was on the pre ordination retreat I still had a feeling that the Bishop might change his mind. But all went well, and I was able to Celebrate my First Mass that evening.

The consequence of being made priest meant that I had been given certain authority. The big one was that I could Celebrate the Eucharist, and most priests I know never get tired of reflecting on the privilege that is. It is not us – but we call upon the Holy Spirit, and something happens. It is efficacious, and we get to consume something intrinsically holy. Christians have found no better thing to do than to Break Bread together. Every time I get to celebrate the Eucharist I feel humbled.
The reason we wear  vestments – the Alb, the Chasuble, are to as it were cover our ‘Self’ and present the ‘Priest’. As I say, it is not about us as individuals, it is all about the office of Priest.

Having said that, there is a feeling that comes with being given authority. A Priest can marry people, they can hear confession and pronounce absolution, they can Celebrate the Eucharist and they can Bless.

There are plenty of other things that a Priest does, but most are not the exclusive role of a Priest. So Baptism, Preaching, Leading Worship, Praying with and for the sick, walking with folk on their Spiritual Journey are all vitally important, but you don’t need to be a priest in order to do them.

One of the things that is very common is that, at the first celebration of the Eucharist that a newly ordained priest conducts, they will conclude with an individual Blessing for each member of the congregation. This is another truly beautiful moment. 
I had hoped to be able to repeat this at my fortieth, by Covid restrictions are still in place, so there can be no Laying on of hands. So, instead I wrote and shared this Blessing for all.

Anniversary Blessing

God the Father, source of all that is,
Give you  a sense of childlike wonder as you embrace the beauty of your creation.
Let the mountains fill you with awe, the seas wash away any negativity and the winds air your souls on the breath of the life.

God the Son,
Bringer of light and peace.
Fill you with his presence, that you may be constantly aware of his love coursing through your veins.
As he fills you with his gifts, let the light inside shine from the inside out.

God the Holy Spirit,
Breathe into you the gifts of Love, Joy, Beauty and Freedom, and throughout your life may Justice and Peace hold hands

And the Blessing of God Almighty, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit fill you with his Grace, that you may know your calling, and see and believe the great things that God has done.

Amen

Those of us who are in any way connected with the Chaplaincy of the Holy Spirit Costa Blanca know that through the ministry of my wonderful colleagues we are truly Blessed.

Before I pronounced that Blessing I was able to say that those feeling of importance I felt at my ordination were thankfully short lived. I soon got to understand that even though I may be called to do specific things within the church, and beyond it, I am least in the Kingdom of heaven. The folk who continue to uplift me when I am down, lead me when I am lost, inspire me when I flounder and walk next to me, and sit beside me when I need it most, those folk, those saints are the regular people who sit in the pews week in and week out, and say their prayers – and they don’t need to dress up in a frock to do so.

Bless you, Bless you, Bless you,

Your Servant in Christ,

Marcus

Tuesday Offering from Fr. Marcus, 6th July 2021

How brilliantly full on it has been!

Good Morning my Friends,

I hope all is well.

Sorry, I haven’t written for a couple of weeks – it has been absolutely full on, in a great way, and I have been immersed in Joy, Fun, Excitement and laughter, and now I would like to share some of that with you.

Let me just set the scene. On June 21st Sandra and I left for Malaga, so that the following day we could walk the Caminito Del Rey. On June 26th we celebrated a special Wedding Anniversary. On June 29th was the 40th Anniversary of me being ordained Priest and we can a Celebration Eucharist at La Fustera, and I was able to announce that Bishop Robert is to make me a Canon, and on July 1st I reached the ripe old age of 65! So, you won’t be surprised that I have put on a couple of pounds, and I am exhausted but in a good way.

I shall unpack some of these today and in my next Offering, and in my Video tomorrow, but first the Caminito Del Rey.

As you may know I suffer from a very pronounced fear of heights, and although I was delighted when Sandra suggested we go there to celebrate my birthday, I was very apprehensive to say the least. The route used to be known as the most dangerous walk in the world, as it is very high, pinned on to the sides of a huge gorge in El Chorro near Ardales. It was originally built as a route for workers building the hydroelectric plants at Chorro Falls and Gaitenajo Falls.

You can see the little walkway two thirds of the way up!

As preparation for this, with help from some dear friends, I immersed myself in some high up adventures – including a couple of days climbing the Toix Ouste just outside Calpe. I had never done anything like that before, and the experience was amazing, enlightening, but more importantly it worked, and I was able to walk the route of the Camino without fear, and my head held high, and was able to absorb the absolute beauty and wonder all around me. I can honestly say that the experience, the scenery, the sheer stunning awesomeness of the surroundings made this one of the highlights of my life. I absolutely loved it.

So, what did it teach me, or what did I learn? Well the first thing was a real sense of awe at the beauty of creation.  It is set in the Natural Park of the “Desfiladero de los Gaitanes” which is full of lakes, rivers, streams, forests, reservoirs, tiny villages and of course mountains, and it is absolutely stunning.
The next thing was the generosity and good will of friends who really put themselves out in order that I might enjoy an experience better even though they would not be part of it. It reminded me of a saying by Matthew Fox – ‘To delight in someone else’s joy in like being in heaven.’
But the most striking result of this whole thing was to realise that it is possible to manage fear. Not remove it, not necessarily overcome it, but manage it, and in so doing, open up more opportunities.
I am still scared of heights, and I can certainly envisage times when I shall freeze, swear, and not want to continue, but now I can bring to mind experiences that will remind me that if it is safe and secure, even though it is high, it is doable. And of course this feeling is transferable. If I can do that, I can do other things that scare me. I can find inner resources to give me an extra feeling of confidence. I can plan for other new adventures and challenges that I would have stepped back from in the past. I am prepared to give it a go.

So here is the apology. Sorry that this has been all about me – and the great time Sandra and I had, and about me learning to manage my fears. But there is a point to it that relates to us all, and our Chaplaincy here in the Costa Blanca.

We all love this place, and we love our Fellowship, our Churches, or Members, our Clergy, our Congregations and all that it means to be part of the Chaplaincy of the Holy Spirit Costa Blanca. We want it to blossom and thrive and flourish and grow, and to be the centre for our own spiritual development and growth, and we long for many people to come and join us on our journey of faith. We would love our churches to be full. Full of people. Full of the Holy Spirit. Full of Love. Full of Joy, and Laughter, and Learning, and New Experiences. 
We want the joy of watching other folk come to faith. We want to walk alongside those who are trying to discern what it means. We want to hold the hands of those who struggle, and be with them as they discover that God is. We want to serve, to nurture, to nourish, to befriend, to tell the stories of the great things that God has done, and still does every day in our lives. We want to continue for years and years and years and years and years.
But………that means we have to do stuff, and some of the stuff scares us, some seems beyond us, and some we just cannot do. There are obstacles in the way, and they seem insurmountable. 
You see, many of us are wary of doing those things that need to happen to encourage people to ‘Come and see’. We are nervous about telling our story. We are worried that we might put off our friends if we talk about our faith. We don’t want to upset new acquaintances by ‘Going on about church’. We don’t know what to say. We are not sure what the right thing to do is. We were not called to be evangelists. 
Add to that the hugely difficult obstacle of our finances. We are really struggling, and all we seem to do is constantly ask for money. And we seem to ask the same folk over and over again.
Bless you all for your generosity.

So – what have I learned. What have we learned. We can do this. We can build our church in this place and beyond. We can climb higher than we ever felt possible. We can tell our story, and we can walk alongside those who value our presence. We can delight in the joy of those on a journey of discovery. 

Jesus says ‘I want my house to be full’.

We can all play our part in making this happen. We can discern what it is that God is calling us to do, be it outreach, invites, financial, or thinking outside the box.

If our church is worth being a member of, it is worth encouraging others. If we are not happy with it, tell us, and we can work together to make it wonderful.

Let’s do something beautiful for God.

Bless you, Bless you, Bless you,

As ever,

Fr Marcus

Services this week

Our churches are all operating services at their normal times, with each celebrating the Eucharist. In Javea, as we did last year, we are moving our weekly service to Wednesdays at 10:30. (because our Roman Catholic hosts will be using the church on Sundays). Our weekly service in Alfaz continues on Thursdays. 

In all our churches we are committed to abide by the regulations; sanitation, social distancing, mask wearing and personal sanitising on entry. We continue to keep a record of attendees for track and trace purposes if needed. 

Do join us at one of our services if you can. 

Full details of these weekly communion services can be found at this page – https://costablanca-anglicanchaplaincy.org/churches-and-services-3/.

Fr. Rodney and Fr. Robin will be broadcasting their now regular communion service on Fr. Rodney’s Facebook page. It will be “streamed” live on Sunday at 10am Spanish time (9am BST) and then available all day on Sunday, to join at your leisure. As always both the live broadcast and the recording will be available on the following page – https://www.facebook.com/rodney.middleton.940. If you are not ready or not able to join us in one of our churches this is a wonderful way to share our worship.

And remember to tune in to Fr. Marcus for his live Sunday radio programme, between 6pm and 8pm, Spanish time, on Pure Gold FM. You can listen on the radio on 94.1 FM. Or on your computer, tablet or phone join through the listen live button on https://puregold.fm/.

If you wish to make a donation to support our Chaplaincy, which is entirely self-funded, you can pay directly into the Chaplaincy bank account in Spain (please show your name and the congregation that you support, if appropriate). The full IBAN number is –

ES24 0075 1294 6206 0012 5274 

Or just click the following link to do so by PayPal – https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=xA7J07Xw0SFH_TzEYDtvGRskRTX3GCRt__ZjUFjy0UsUKgo5cP8p3eN0jmtlWNsInNBsaKjfOGIFWme6

Rev. Canon Marcus Ronchetti

Yesterday we joined Fr. Marcus to celebrate the feast of St. Peter and St. Paul, and to mark the 40th anniversary of his appointment as an ordained priest.

We also heard the announcement from Bishop Robert that Fr. Marcus is appointed a Canon. This recognises his wonderful work and leadership in the parish and his excellent outreach into the community.

A truly joyous occasion.

More background on the appointment will follow. But, for now, we join in prayers of thanks and congratulations.

Fr. Marcus receives a blessing from Rev. Canon Rodney Middleton

Services this Sunday

In all our churches we are committed to abide by the regulations; sanitation, social distancing, mask wearing and personal sanitising on entry. We continue to keep a record of attendees for track and trace purposes if needed. 

Our churches are all operating services at their normal times, with each celebrating the Eucharist. In Javea, 27th June will be our last Sunday service until the 26th September.  As we did last year, we are moving our weekly service to Wednesdays at 10:30. (because our Roman Catholic hosts will be using the church on Sundays). Our weekly service in Alfaz continues on Thursdays.

Full details of these weekly communion services can be found at this page – https://costablanca-anglicanchaplaincy.org/churches-and-services-3/.

Fr. Rodney and Fr. Robin will be broadcasting their now regular communion service on Fr. Rodney’s Facebook page. It will be “streamed” live on Sunday at 10am Spanish time (9am BST) and then available all day on Sunday, to join at your leisure. As always both the live broadcast and the recording will be available on the following page – https://www.facebook.com/rodney.middleton.940. If you are not ready or not able to join us in one of our churches this is a wonderful way to share our worship.

Do join us at one of our services if you can. 

And remember to tune in to Fr. Marcus for his live Sunday radio programme, between 6pm and 8pm, Spanish time, on Pure Gold FM. You can listen on the radio on 94.1 FM. Or on your computer, tablet or phone join through the listen live button on https://puregold.fm/.

If you wish to make a donation to support our Chaplaincy, which is entirely self-funded, you can pay directly into the Chaplaincy bank account in Spain (please show your name and the congregation that you support, if appropriate). The full IBAN number is –

ES24 0075 1294 6206 0012 5274 

Or just click the following link to do so by PayPal – https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=Xk_Il4mzwYZ2bDDucdhJvJ1B15-Q1fTDWPx1lGxm0_Cx1XbHzcRhF9IXtJi69XEWdBRFbZEb53F6OOTz

Worship from Rugby School

Many of you will know the Rev Richard Horner, who comes in summer with Debbie and their wonderful family. We look forward to welcoming Richard, Debbie, Jess and Lucy later in July.

Richard is Chaplain at Rugby School, and Debbie has just sent the following message –

“We have been having some fun with BBC recordings this week.

Unfortunately we haven’t been able to have the chapel full of pupils which we had hoped, but nonetheless there are three services which you may be interested in:

Choral Evensong, live on Radio 3 this Wednesday – ie now! –  at 3.30pm

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000x701

Sunday Worship, this Sunday on Radio 4 at 8.10am (recorded yesterday)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000xds4

Choral Evensong on BBC Radio 3 at 3.30pm on Wednesday 11th August (recorded this morning)

Love to all

Debbie xxx”

Our services this weekend

In all our churches we are committed to abide by the regulations; sanitation, social distancing, mask wearing and personal sanitising on entry. We continue to keep a record of attendees for track and trace purposes if needed. 

Our churches are all operating services at their normal times, with each celebrating the Eucharist. Do join us if you can. 

Full details of these weekly communion services can be found at this page – https://costablanca-anglicanchaplaincy.org/churches-and-services-3/.

Fr. Rodney and Fr. Robin will be broadcasting their now regular communion service on Fr. Rodney’s Facebook page. It will be “streamed” live on Saturday at 7pm Spanish time (6pm BST) and then available all day on Sunday, to join at your leisure. As always both the live broadcast and the recording will be available on the following page – https://www.facebook.com/rodney.middleton.940. If you are not ready or not able to join us in one of our churches this is a wonderful way to share our worship.

And remember to tune in to Fr. Marcus for his live Sunday radio programme, between 6pm and 8pm, Spanish time, on Pure Gold FM. You can listen on the radio on 94.1 FM. Or on your computer, tablet or phone join through the listen live button on https://puregold.fm/.

If you wish to make a donation to support our Chaplaincy, which is entirely self-funded, you can pay directly into the Chaplaincy bank account in Spain (please show your name and the congregation that you support, if appropriate). The full IBAN number is –

ES24 0075 1294 6206 0012 5274 

Or just click the following link to do so by PayPal –

https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=aef_xChdlnk4CPqBqz1GN9Mzns6Q0MjzzNHonkDcys90cH_xgkiSC1nCSxUj41pozqdTZntF1ZRy3ysC

Thursday Offering from Fr. Marcus 17th June 2021 Part 2. And an apology.

Good Day my Friends,

Thank you for coming back for part 2.

Firstly let me apologise for my Wednesday video. I didn’t check my memory banks, and of course it was not Andrew Lloyd Weber who wrote Godspell, and thus ‘Day by Day’, but it was Stephen Schwartz. 1971. So, a reminder never to take anything I say for granted.

On Tuesday I told you a little of the story of my road to Ordination, and apologies if it seemed all about me.


Today I want to try and unpack a little of what a priest is.
Of course you all know, but sometimes it is good to reflect on these things. Often non church friends think I do very different things than I actually do.
In the Order of Service for the Ordination of Priests the Bishop says:

Priests are called to be servants and shepherds among the people to whom they are sent. With their Bishop and fellow-ministers, they are to proclaim the word of the Lord and to watch for the signs of God’s new creation. They are to be messengers, watchmen and stewards of the Lord; they are to teach and to admonish, to feed and provide for his family, to search for his children in the wilderness of this world’s temptations, and to guide them through its confusions, that they may be saved through Christ for ever. Formed by the word, they are to call their hearers to repentance and to declare in Christ’s name the absolution and forgiveness of their sins.

With all God’s people, they are to tell the story of God’s love. They are to baptize new disciples in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, and to walk with them in the way of Christ, nurturing them in the faith. They are to unfold the Scriptures, to preach the word in season and out of season, and to declare the mighty acts of God. They are to preside at the Lord’s table and lead his people in worship, offering with them a spiritual sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving. They are to bless the people in God’s name. They are to resist evil, support the weak, defend the poor, and intercede for all in need. They are to minister to the sick and prepare the dying for their death. Guided by the Spirit, they are to discern and foster the gifts of all God’s people, that the whole Church may be built up in unity and faith.


It is very clear this is not about anyone’s individual skills, abilities (thank God) or personality, but rather it is to do with exercising the authority with which we are called to act.
The opening sentence sets it our. We are called to be servants and shepherds, not masters with followers. We minister where we are sent, not where we choose to go.
Our role is to proclaim the word of God, not our own ideas or particular theory or political (with both a big and small p) stance. It is not about what we think, it is about what Scripture teaches us.

We are called to watch for signs of growth, or of God’s New creation. It is to do with what God does, not what we do. Like we learned on Sunday, ‘The kingdom of God is as if someone would scatter seed on the ground, and would sleep and rise night and day, and the seed would sprout and grow, he does not know how. The earth produces of itself, first the stalk, then the head, then the full grain in the head.

We a messengers, and I like that, because it reminds me of angels, but we never forget whose message it is.
We are to teach, and again I love that! I enjoy it too, because I had such great teachers throughout my life. But we are also to admonish! I am not so good at that, as for me, even though we base our thinking on the teaching of Jesus, I find it hard to see things in black and white. There is always another side to every story and every action. I just try to take us back to the Gospels.

I love the bit about searching for God’s children in the wilderness of the temptations of the world. This is why I like so many of my fellow clergy spend so much of our time not just with our congregations.
Guiding folk through their confusions- it is such a lovely thought. But so many times my help has just added another layer of confusion! Thankfully we are surrounded with people with proper wisdom.

But then comes what I think of as the deeply Priestly bits. To call folk to repentance and declare in Christ’s name the absolution and forgiveness of their sins.
This is so much not about the person of the priest. It is not Marcus who forgives or absolves, it is not Jim who takes that sin away. It is not Rodney who has the ability to make you clean. It is The Priest, Called by God, Ordained by the Bishop, and given authority to speak, proclaim, absolve and forgive in the name of Christ. This is about big stuff, and I want to really stress that this is never about us. It is all about Jesus.
The next line reminds us that we are doing all of this in conjunction with our church members – With all God’s people they are to tell the story of God’s love. So that includes you my friends. Together we find ways to tell the Story f God’s love. 

We baptize, and walk alongside those on their spiritual journey, and again this is something we all share in, and it is such a joy. The high points in any priest’s life are when people come to faith. We are immensely blessed whenever it happens.
More preaching and teaching, which means more joy. But then the really big stuff.
The priest is called to preside at the Lord’s Table. To Celebrate the Eucharist.
Christians have found no better thing to do in 2000 years, than to obey what Jesus commanded us to do, and break bread together.
This sacrament of the Eucharist, and the celebration of it is, I believe about the most important thing we do. It is that incredible moment when, because of the authority invested in us, and not remotely because of us personally, we do this thing, so that the faithful can recognise Jesus in the breaking of the bread.
That is why we wear vestments. To cloak our personality. It is not Marcus, or Jim or Rodney who Consecrates the Bread and Wine. It is the Priest who speaks in the name of Christ.

On the day of my Ordination to the priesthood, I was given authority to Celebrate the Eucharist, and so, on that very same day I celebrated my First Mass. It is what most priests do. It is glorious, and so humbling because all eyes are on you – but it is not about you. I have to say though, that all clergy I know feel very blessed having been given this authority.

The next thing we are permitted to do is to Bless! Up until then we are not allowed to hear confession, we are not allowed to Celebrate the Eucharist, and we are not allowed to Bless – which means we could not take weddings, because they include a Blessing!
So the other beautiful thing that happens at a First Mass, is that the newly ordained priest, often individually, Blesses the members of his or her congregation.
This is such an honour for the priest, and again is a humbling experience as we remind ourselves it is conferring God’s Blessing, not our own!
At the moment, because of Covid restrictions, we are not allowed to Lay Hands on folk as we impart a Blessing. I am having an Anniversary Celebration of the Eucharist on June 29th at 5pm at La Fustera, and of course you are very welcome to attend. I had hoped to be able to individually Bless each and every one of you, but that is not currently possible – but I have written a Special Blessing to impart to you all in one go. I am really looking forward to that.

The Priest is also commanded to resist evil, support the week, defend the poor and intercede for all. Again all of that is not confined to the clergy, but we are called to say our prayers. It is what we do, and our ministry would fall apart if we didn’t base it and ground it in prayer.

The final section has two major points. We prepare the dying for that moment when they wing their way to heaven. This is about the Glory of God, and our worship and ministry help us give a foretaste of the kingdom. But we are also called to discern and foster gifts that the Kingdom may grow, and that is the point of my last two letters.
there may be folk who read these, or there may be people who you know, who you feel may have a calling to some kind of ministry. Be it full time within the church, or some vocation elsewhere. It is our shared role to help discern and foster the God given gifts that people have, because often people can not see them in themselves.

I would never have got ordained if people I trusted hadn’t said to me ‘Are you going to be ordained?’ It was way to scary an idea for me to think of for myself.

So, if there is someone who you feel is called to exercise some sort of ministry, or some particular vocation, there is no better time than now to share your thoughts with them.

Bless you, Bless you, Bless you

Fr Marcus

PS – I shall not be producing letters or video this coming week, but will resume the week after.